How to Choose a Church?

Many have experienced the joy of becoming a part of a church that meets their needs for worship, instruction, fellowship, and outreach. But many of us, too, after becoming part of a vital church ministry, are forced to leave that fellowship behind as a job change or the pursuit of higher education takes us across the city or across the country. Others find that a church which once seemed comfortable is no longer compatible with an evolving lifestyle or theology.

Finding a new church home can be as confusing, and as important, as choosing a new place to live. We often find ourselves looking for a twin to our former church, a search that almost always ends in frustration. Or, even if we find a similar church, we may discover that with the changes in our lifestyles, that type of church no longer "fits."

Consider the following questions as you visit new churches:

• What type of service structure do I prefer?
  Ask yourself, “Would I feel more comfortable with a structured liturgy, or a more informal service order?”
  
  Does the worship service give you an opportunity to focus on the Lord, yet allow you to become truly a part of a worshiping body? There are many forms and expressions of worship, so that we can learn from each other, but each form should enhance the joy, thanksgiving, and fellowship of the other believers.
  
  
• What type of worship best suits me?
  Worship is the way we express our love and appreciation to God, our awe and wonder of His works and His ways. Consider what style will allow you to most freely express your worship to God. Some churches have contemporary music, some have traditional. Some sing hymns, others sing choruses. Some have full bands, others have orchestras and choirs. Some sing gospel, rock, hard rock, etc.
  
  
• What types of ministries and programs are offered?
  You want your church to be a place where you can connect with other believers. Some churches offer a very simple ministry approach and others extend an elaborate system of classes, programs, productions and more.
  
  Quite often churches are strong in one or two areas, but weak in others. In the long run, the strongest churches are those that attempt to develop a balanced and well-rounded ministry.
  
  
• Do I prefer a small or a large church?
  Some small church fellowships are unable to offer many ministries and programs, while larger ones can support an array of opportunities. However, a small church can provide a more intimate, close-knit environment that a large church may not be able to cultivate as effectively. Becoming relational often requires more effort in a large church. These are things to consider when looking at the size of the church.
  
  
• What type of attire would I be most comfortable wearing to church?
  In some churches tee-shirts, jeans, and even shorts, are appropriate. In others a suit and tie or dress would be more appropriate. In some anything goes, so ask yourself, "What is right for me - dressy, casual, or both?"
  
  
• Call before visiting.
  Next, take some time to list specific questions you would want to call and ask the church before visiting. One vital step that can help you sense the heartbeat of the church is to set up an appointment with one of the leaders— the pastor, one of the pastoral staff, or one of the congregational leaders.
  
  A question such as, "What is the goal of your outreach program?" may help you see whether the church is truly concerned with reaching the world for the sake of Christ, or reaching the community for the sake of the church's growth program. Evaluate the goals of the church's ministry in the light of your perceived spiritual needs.
  
  Some churches will even mail you an “information packet” or “visitor’s packet,” so be sure to ask for these when you call.
  
  
• Visit church Web sites.
  You can often get a good “feel” for the church by visiting their Web site. Most churches will provide information about how the church got started, doctrinal beliefs, a statement of faith, plus information about the ministries and outreaches they offer.
  

Make a checklist.
Before visiting, make a check list of the most important characteristics about the church you hope to find. Then rate the church according to your check list when you leave. Keeping notes will help you compare and decide later. If you are visiting many churches, as time passes you may have trouble keeping them straight. This will help you keep a record for future reference.

Questions and Information taken From How to Find a Church, From Mary Fairchild and from How to Choose a Church Home, From Michael J. Wilkins